Thursday, 28 May 2009

Acceptance in Personal and Interpersonal Development

Children are undeveloped. We must accept that children will keep secrets and that there are things they will tell other people but not you. Give them some space but make it clear to them that you are always available if and when they need you. And if they do talk to you, keep an open mind to what they are saying and keep any reservations you make have to yourself. Teenagers can be very difficult. But in most cases, it is because we rarely listen to them and even rarely try to look at things from their point of view. How we relate to them has a great impact on how the will develop as adults. And what they become as adults is surely a reflection on how we are as parents.

By giving a teenager respect you can win them over. You can encourage personal and interpersonal development when you give them respect, simply because they will start respecting you and start to see things in a different light.

Many parents fail to respect their children. Rather they believe that the child must respect them and that the child must earn his or her respect and must be an adult. This is far from reality and truth, simply because these little minds are people too.

When you learn to accept that your child, like you, deserves respect you will find it easier to talk with your child. In addition, the encouragement you give will inspire your child to think for him or her self.

When your child thinks for him or her self it is a part of development, which ultimately guides them to do what is right. They build a strong mind, which is what you want to encourage throughout the processes of child development.

Teenagers go through a lot at school and at home. Often they are pressured to act like someone else rather than themselves. As parents we must accept that our children have their own personality and should act in accord to who they are, rather than like someone else.

Encourage your child to be him or her self. This will inspire personal and interpersonal development. Your child needs room to grow, so be the parent and give your child this room.

Children also have a mind of their own and are human beings that will make many mistakes during the process of child development. Keep in mind that you make and have made many mistakes during your grow up phase. Give your child room to develop and learn from his or her mistake. Instead of punishing your child harshly when he or she makes a mistake, sit down like two adults and discuss the consequences with your child.

What a great way to encourage personal and interpersonal development for your child. Treat your child like a human being and your child will grow happy and healthy with a stable mind and a whole being created.

Children, like adults need to feel trusted. When you show your child that you trust him or her, your child will thrive to do his or her best to make sure that this trust is not broken.

Trust your child. Trust is a point of respect that we must all develop so that we can encourage healthy personal and interpersonal relationships and development.

Children need to feel close to their parents also. The closeness should have balance and we as parents must put forth effort to listen to our child when needed, and to pay closer attention to our children’s needs. By doing so we can encourage healthy children through personal and interpersonal development.

Abilities in Interpersonal and Personal Development

Interpersonal development has skills that give one the ability to read and know how to manage their emotions behaviors and motivations of oneself during the time of social interactions.

If you are an individual that is aware of and able to manage your own emotions, strengths and are able to handle to a certain degree face to face interactions, than you have interpersonal skills. Others may be able to manage one’s behavior during social interactions. Every individual should be able to layout their goals and make a decision according to the goals of others involved. One should understand and think positively when trying to manage emotions of others in face-to-face and virtual environments; one needs to be very sensitive when it comes to the needs of others and the force that has shaped the way others have grown to feel and behave. Never forget to enhance the strengths and abilities of others.

One should learn how to manage conflicts and any other situation devising to a win -win solution constructively. It is important to how to use effective communication and persuasive gestures. No matter what, listen well to everyone involved.

It has been found that even people with high IQ’s suffer from emotional intelligence. This is where one has trouble managing one’s emotions well. Interpersonal skills are twice as important if you are involved in the workforce. Interpersonal skills have brought many working teams together, away from diverse groups. which may have never shared even one common value or vocabulary, but offer unique insights and other perspectives.

Just look at the ways interpersonal skills have brought individuals together.

Voice- Mail
Audio Conferencing
Video Conferencing

There are many ways for individuals to communicate with other. This don’t only increase the ways in which individuals interact, but these techniques also require a heightened sensitive to the difference of interpersonal interactions. This may have been particularly true in the areas of virtual communications and virtual learning. This is where no one can uses hand gestures body languages or facial expressions to express one’s feelings or emotions.

Individuals want to challenge the interpersonal skills not only when faced with a situation, but also in virtual interactions. Superiors should handle this in an effective manner. When one suffers from a lack of interpersonal skills, all work force functions suffer. This is a program that addresses interpersonal communication processes that focuses on critical skills where messaging is involved. One should be able to listen and provide feedback.

Many studies have been accomplished in trying to develop interpersonal communication in the workplace, which may often include difficult situations. One’s verbal communication or nonverbal interpersonal communication habits should be looked at and continuously practiced.

Often one’s in higher supervision are given a personality test in training supervision in when it comes to assisting in one’s behavior and communication. Good supervision will be expected to support employees that may become over powering or need encouragement. instruction ; or in guidance and allowing time for necessary advice. Supervision may have the power over the employee’s, but the true skill lies with the employees and that is trying to build trust, assurance and motivation.

Everyone no matter if you are working or not needs to learn to trust. One needs to know that their motivation and support are fully secured in the assurance of another. Humans need that sense of security surrounding one self. Do you have your own sense of security? Have you learned to cope with life’s situations daily? Reach out for the support you may need. There is no sin in seeking help. It could be considered a sin to suffer in silence.

A Housewifes Manual to Personal and Interpersonal Development

Being a “mere housewife” is no longer the downtrodden, poor little woman of thirty years ago. Today’s frantic, two-income; the kids-have-to-go-to-college household precludes being a “mere housewife.” It is a luxury not many women are able to achieve. It means your husband is making enough that you no longer have to join the rat race, and you are now free to take care of the house and the kids, if any. It is the perfect time for some serious personal and interpersonal development. The image of the housewife as one cut-off from contact with the outer world is a thing of the past. With cable television, DVD, the Internet and DSL, a stay-at-home mom can be all things at the same time, yet find time for the family. Here is a typical day a housewife as it can be today.

Keep fit. With the kids gone, you can switch on your exercise program and burn off a few calories while waiting for the washing machine to finish the cycle. With the clothes in the dryer, you can munch on some fruit or raw vegetables while you check your email. Folding is done in a thrice while you watch the latest reality show on cable television. Telecommute. With clothes folded, you download the files you will need for the transcription job you do on the side while you vacuum the floor. An incoming e-mail lets you know that the headphones you ordered is on its way. Another e-mail gives you your blogging assignments for the week, and you note it on your scheduler, squeezing it in between lunch and picking up the kids from soccer practice.

Take up a hobby. The doorbell rings as you finish cleaning the bathroom and the courier hands you the pattern for the cross-stitching you are doing for an online store, which specializes in personalized cross-stitching. It will take you maybe two weeks of waiting for dinner to finish cooking and watching TV with your husband after dinner to finish the project. In the meantime, the stuff you had posted on eBay has been getting hits and the bidding will end soon. That is one way to get rid of the clutter.

Make friends. Your Skype and YM are both ringing but you put them on hold while you tick off the things you will need to get from the grocery. You send e-mail to your sister in Australia informing her that the family reunion is going on as scheduled and to email you back pictures of the kids so they could be included in the electronic album you are making and burning into disks as a giveaway. Someone from Japan wants you to add her to your contacts, and you think this is a good time to find out more about Japan and you add her, together with contacts in Germany, India and North Korea. The English can be a little funny at times but at least you are starting to learn a few words in German. An old high school friend comes online and wants to chat. You stay online for half an hour, declining to use the video camera because you have face cream on. You tell your chat room you need to sign out and turn away to start dinner.

Is this fantasy? Hardly. Limits are only set by the mind, and with technological innovations for instant communication and online transaction the possibilities are endless. Pretty soon, husbands will want to be househusbands. That may be a good thing. At least that will get the mowing done while he is on a conference call with his boss in Taiwan.